What is sex?
SexSexAll acts that can sexually arouse you. Sex is more than sexual intercourse.…Read more refers to all acts that can sexually arouse you. SexSexAll acts that can sexually arouse you. Sex is more than sexual intercourse.…Read more is more than sexual intercourse. It also includes things such as kissing, caressing and oral sexOral sexStimulating someone else's sexual organs with your mouth or tongue. Oral sex for…Read more. You can also have sex with yourself. This is called masturbationMasturbationGetting aroused by stimulating your own body (usually the sexual organs). Masturbation can…Read more.
SexualitySexualityA central aspect of being human. It is a normal and positive way…Read more is a central part of human life. It is a normal and positive way to express yourself. Sexuality involves not only sex but also other matters. For example: sexual pleasure and intimacyIntimacyClose bond. Respectful and tender care for each other. Intimacy can be physical,…Read more, anatomy and having children, as well as taboos and values around sexual orientationSexual orientationFeeling sexually and emotionally attracted to someone. This can be someone of the opposite…Read more.
Reasons for having sex
You can have sex for various reasons. For instance, because you want to:
- have children;
- experience sexual pleasure;
- express loveLoveStrong feeling of connection, respect, intimacy and commitment for another person. People have…Read more and other feelings;
- experience intimacy;
- relax.
Different ways of having sex
You can have sex in many different ways:
Sex is not only about the right techniques. It is also important to pay attention to the feelings and wishes of the other person, to share intimacy and to create the right atmosphere.
Experiment and find out what you and your partnerPartnerPerson you are in a relationship with.Read more like best. Talk with your partner about your desires and feelings. You can also experiment on your own.
Sex can be different every time.
People’s sex life can change during their lifetime. For example: because their body or sexual desireSexual desireThe feeling that you would like to have sex. Someone can feel sexual…Read more changes. This is normal. Some people do not have sex for a shorter or longer period of time.
Couple talking in bed.
Different relationships and sex lives
People have many different kinds of relationships and sex lives. For example: some people have sex before marriage, and others wait until afterwards. Some people only have 1 partner, others have several.
People of the same sex can also have sex with each other (homosexuality).
Lesbian couple having sex.
Sexual consent
Each time you have sex you should give your consent and feel ready. Mutual consent means that both people want to have sexual contact. Both people can decide to stop at any moment.
Do not let anyone force you to have sex.
In the Netherlands, the legal minimum age for sexual contact is 16 years. The lawLawRules which decide what you may and may not do. Every country has…Read more is there to protect young people against sexual abuse. If both young people agree and the difference in their ages is not too great, it is rarely punished. In the Netherlands involuntary sex is punishable by law, even if there was no force used.
A woman and a man lying in bed. They both agree to have sex with each other.